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Dress Up Veils

Dress Up Veils

If you have girly girls, you know how much fun dress up can be. You also know that the stuff you buy in the store is expensive on the wallet, but doesn’t last long because it is made so cheaply. A couple of years ago, we were in Claire’s oohing and ahhing over all the jewelry and accessories when one of my girls pulled a veil off the shelf. She was so very excited to pretend she was “getting married”.

She wanted to buy it, but because of the $13 price tag, and the fact that she had no money to spend at the time, she wasn’t able to. Knowing her birthday was coming up, I took a close look at how the veil was made and decided that might be a good handmade gift. I made two, one with pink flowers on the comb and one with purple (I know that when one of the girls is dressing up, the other usually wants to also). Just before I took the pictures last week, one of the dogs got ahold of the purple one and chewed it up! The kids have had them for a year now and they were good as new. The dog got it for 5 minutes and destroyed it.

Because it was such a simple project, and cost only about half of what I would have paid in the store, I wanted to share it with you. Since they are already made I don’t have step by step pictures, but I’ll try to make the directions clear.

Items Needed:

White or Clear hair combs (I paid $5 for a 2 pack at JoAnn’s, but I’m sure you can find them cheaper at Wal-Mart)

Tulle (Measurements on this depend on how long you want to make them and how wide the fabric is on the bolt. Get a piece double the length that you want the finished product to be.)

Decorative Ribbon or Flowers

Needle and Thread

 

Directions:

This is one of those projects I was able to do while watching TV in the evening. I think it took me two evenings to complete both veils. Not bad for a birthday present that actually gets played with a year later!

Fold the tulle in half lengthwise. Take the folded end and begin to hand sew it to the comb as shown in this picture. You’ll have to scrunch the tulle a little with each stitch until it fits the width of the comb. (You can click on any picture if you need to enlarge it.)

Once you feel the tulle is secure on the comb, repeat the process with the ribbon or flowers. I know it takes more time to do the sewing twice, but I couldn’t keep the tulle in place while trying to do the flowers at the same time. I’m sure the extra stitching can’t hurt. You’ll want to tuck the flowers/ribbon around the back edge of the comb like you see in the picture, otherwise it will unravel and show on the front.

That is really it. Tulle won’t unravel, so there is no hemming necessary. You could even get fancier and tack some ribbon around the bottom edges of the veil. I figured it was a toy and the extra ribbon and time weren’t necessary. Here’s the cost breakdown:

2 pk. combs         $5

Tulle                      $5

Flower edging     $3

Total for 2 veils   $13 (as opposed to $13 for one at Claire’s)

2 layers allows them to have a front veil if they choose

Do you like to sew? Or would you rather pay the extra to purchase things already made?

Served By A Stranger

Served By A Stranger

 

This is after the initial "light up" face. She's eyeing Miranda's ice cream sundae!

Today we were blessed by the kindness of a total stranger. My beautiful Miranda turned 8 today, and picked Red Robin for her birthday lunch (probably because she knows they serve up a pretty cool ice cream sundae for birthday girls). During our lunch, we watched a couple of boys at the table next to us go play the games in the front lobby. You know the money waster game where you have a moving arm, with a weak clutch and you are only a winner if that clutch actually grabs one of the elusive stuffed animals. Well, these boys had the game mastered, and returned to the table 4 times with stuffed animals!

They finished their meal before we did, and as they were leaving one of the boys (I’m guessing around 9 years old), walked up to Elsie and offered her this little pony. Oh how her face lit up! She beamed and hugged the animal, and even managed to squeak out a “dant dou”. She didn’t even want to put it down to eat her food, and almost NOTHING is as important to Elsie as food right now!

Pretty cool, huh?

Special Thank-Yous

Special Thank-Yous

I just wanted to show you the unique thank you notes that Miranda made to show appreciation for her Christmas gifts. These were all her own work, which means they are truly from the heart. I didn’t make her do them. And I didn’t give any instruction.

Now, I actually have to get busy helping her address and send them! (Those of you who are family members reading this must be patient with me. I’ll get them mailed as soon as possible! :)

Do you send thank-you notes for Christmas gifts?

Keep the “ME” out of Christmas Morning

Keep the “ME” out of Christmas Morning

This title is my goal.

Christmas is fun. All the festivities, food, lights, music–any kid (or adult) would have trouble resisting at least a little excitement over the Christmas season. And to me, that’s okay.

But I also want the meaning of Christmas to go much deeper. I do not want my kids to have the give-me-another-present mentality. But as we all know, when kids see another gift under the tree, their automatic response is to throw down the one they just opened and reach for the next one. Here are just some ways I compiled that I have either heard others share, or have personally experienced that might help this focus along. This is not a step-by-step list, it is just some ideas you can pick and choose from. We won’t be accomplishing all these things, but will pick a few.

  • Begin the night before (or even weeks before, but it is a little too late for that right now) to build anticipation for the GIVING of gifts, rather than the RECEIVING.
  • When they wake up, encourage them to find a way to serve another family member before ever going to the tree (like getting Mom her slippers, getting Dad some coffee, making sister’s bed, getting a beanbag chair for brother to sit in, pass out granola bars for a quick breakfast, feed the dogs and take them out for big sister, etc.)
  • Read the Christmas story from the Bible. The kids might even enjoy being the “actors” as Mom or Dad narrate the story (kind of like we did with Rapunzel).
  • Sing a few Christmas carols together as a family.
  • Go around the room and share 1 thing that you are especially grateful for in 2011.
  • In the same way, share some new way you would like to serve in 2012.
  • Once the gift time begins, let each child pass out the gifts they selected for people.
  • Though it takes a little longer, consider opening 1 gift at a time so that all gifts are appreciated. This is more difficult in large groups of people, but if you have plenty of time and a smaller group, encourage this attention to each present.
  • I also want to encourage love and kindness over material possessions. Inevitably, one child will receive “THE” gift of the year. The one that every other child gravitates toward, leaving their pile of not so sparkly stuff behind. I do want each child to enjoy his own things, but I also want the concept this blog was founded on to win out every time. Esteeming others more than we do ourselves. It will be a challenge, but loving others was mandated by God himself. Playing with my material possessions was not.
  • Have no expectations. Realize that I am blessed, regardless of whether or not I find a blue Honda Odyssey in the driveway with a big red bow! (wink, wink) (Jason and I always tease each other about those commercials. Who goes out and buys a vehicle for someone for Christmas?!? Well, it will never happen in my household, but if it does for you…Congratulations!)
  • If cooking and baking is on your list of things to do that morning, try to prepare as much as you can in advance. For things that must be done that day, make sure you organize those tasks into a time schedule so deadlines don’t creep up on you.
  • Make a point to personally thank each person with you on Christmas morning. Thank them for any gift they gave. Thank them for what they mean to you every day, not just on Christmas.
  • Have everyone join in the clean-up. Each person can help fill the big garbage bag with boxes and wrapping paper.
  • And don’t forget those Thank-You notes for gifts from people farther away. They don’t have to be done today, but what would it hurt if you have a little extra time?

How do you do it? What kinds of suggestions do you have for keeping the focus on Christ and others on Christmas morning?

Thinking About Christmas Yet?

Thinking About Christmas Yet?

Are you one of those people that start their Christmas shopping early? Or do you wait till the week before and cram it all in? I try to pick up things that I know will work for gifts when I find them on clearance, but I usually am cramming a few things in last minute too. Some things just can’t be done last minute though. So……

Last month, I took the girls to Joann Fabrics and let them pick out their very first cross-stitch. The plan was for them to work at them little by little and give them as a Christmas gift to someone special this year. Since I had to get them a pre-printed one, their choices were limited. Like these were the only two in the entire store limited. So we bought them and the girls were SO excited to get started. They did a few stitches and found that it is a little difficult and takes more time than they thought. And because it was so new, they were constantly coming to me for help. If I couldn’t stop and help right then, they sat on the counter for long periods of time without being touched. I was excited last week when they took a renewed interest in them. Miranda is getting pretty good at following the diagram, and Clare has been working independently on the half stitches. I am hopeful that they will keep at it and get them done close to Christmas time. I know…there’s a  lot left to do. We’ll see.

Do you have any homemade Christmas projects started already?

11 Years and New Plates

11 Years and New Plates

When we got married….11 years ago….I got an “everyday” plate set (4 place settings), and a more expensive plate set (4 place settings). Then a year and a half later, I received a nice 8 place setting set as a gift. Over the years a few have made their way to the trash after being chipped or broken. Now that our family has 6 members, we aren’t able to use the same plates for everyone when we have company. I keep saying, “I really should look for a new set of plates.”

Well, although I SAY that, I never would actually plunk down the money for them. Jason tried to talk me into buying several different sets over the course of a few months, but I wouldn’t. They were “too expensive”.

Last night, one of those very sets went on extra good clearance. Jason bugged and bugged me until I said I would get them. I de-stickered them today and washed them. Here they are in all their shining glory!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Jason knew I would never buy them without him pushing me. Thanks Jason for serving me this way! I love my new plates!!!